9 Tips for Maintaining a Positive Body Image After 50

My journey towards maintaining a positive body image after 50 started with wrinkles disguised as laugh lines that lingered after a smile. Despite a dedicated diet and exercise, a little spare tire popped up around my middle.

Reality Check

It was a harsh reality check. I realized that to preserve my sanity, I had to forge a new, kinder relationship with my body. As a matter of fact, the old me, yearning for an impossible rewind, had to give way to someone who embraced the present.

Maintaining a positive body image after 50 is crucial for overall well-being and happiness. Embracing the changes that come with age and focusing on self-care can help women feel confident and empowered in their own skin.

Embrace Your Changing Body

One of the first steps to cultivating a positive body image is embracing the changes that naturally occur as we age. Our bodies tell a story of a life well-lived, with each line and curve reflecting our unique journey. Instead of resisting these changes, consider them as badges of honour and embrace the beauty of a body that has carried you through half a century.

Shift your perspective:

  • Focus on strength and resilience: Recognize the amazing things your body has already accomplished and continues to do. From childbirth to carrying you through every adventure, it must be remembered that your body is a marvel of strength and adaptation.
  • Reframe “flaws”: View unique features like wrinkles or curves as signs of a life well-lived, not to mention – stories etched on your skin. Appreciate all the beautiful ‘flaws’ as part of your individual journey.
  • Celebrate function over form: Acknowledge that your body is an instrument for experiencing life, not just an aesthetic object. Celebrate its ability to move, dance, create, and explore.

Practice body appreciation:

  • Express gratitude: Start your day or end it with mindful gratitude practices to cultivate a healthy body image. Thank your body for its tireless support, focus on specific functions you’re grateful for, like healthy lungs, strong legs, or the ability to taste delicious food.
  • Engage in sensual experiences: Take baths, get massages, use gentle moisturizers, and savor delicious meals. Tune into the physical sensations and enjoy the pleasure of caring for your body.
  • Move your body in ways you love: Choose activities that give your body satisfaction, whether it’s dancing, swimming, yoga, or brisk walks—engaging the feeling of movement to celebrate your body’s capabilities.

Challenge negative self-talk:

  • Identify and reframe: Recognize and rewrite negative thoughts about your body. Turn “I hate my thighs” into “My legs have carried me through countless adventures, and I’m grateful for their strength.” Hard though it is, steer clear of unrealistic stereotypes from TV and social media that encourage envy and negative emotions.
  • Counter negativity with compliments: Every time you criticize your body, counter it with three positive affirmations. Be realistic, and focus on things you genuinely appreciate about yourself. Cultivate a positive attitude.
  • Seek support: Surround yourself with people who appreciate and celebrate you for who you are, not just your appearance. They exist! Listen when you are appreciated. My husband hates it when he tells me I look good; I ignore him but come back with the same compliments from my co-workers!!

Embrace your beauty, inside and out:

  • Express your authentic self: To begin with, wear clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Experiment with styles and colors you enjoy, let your individuality shine through.
  • Nourish your mind and soul: Interventions like meditation, journaling, and spending time in nature can nurture your inner beauty, boosting your confidence and self-love.
  • Remember, beauty is multifaceted: You are more than just your physical appearance. Your kindness, wisdom, humor, and resilience are all part of your beauty, contributing to the unique and wonderful person you are.

Focus on Health and Well-being

Shifting the focus from appearance to health is a powerful way to foster a positive body image. Engage in activities that promote physical and mental well-being, such as regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and sufficient rest. Prioritizing health not only enhances your overall vitality but also reinforces a positive connection with your body.

Shift in focus

By emphasizing healthy living and nurturing habits that bring you joy and vitality, you naturally shift your focus away from purely aesthetic concerns. This allows you to appreciate your body for its capabilities and functions rather than solely how it appears.

When I talk about weight management for women over 50, there is some backlash as some people view it as a vanity pursuit. However, it’s crucial to emphasize that weight management is integral to maintaining a healthy body as we age. Focus on eating clean and moving more, and particularly including strength training. It may sound cliche, but its true.

While aging is inevitable, we have significant control over enhancing our quality of life through mindful weight management practices. I cant recall where i heard the quote below, but i love it.

Increased confidence

As you engage in activities that strengthen your body and mind, you gain a newfound confidence in your physical and mental abilities. This confidence spills over into how you perceive your body, fostering a sense of self-worth and acceptance.

The more you move, the better you become. I started strength training and could hardly lift a 3kg dumbbell, and currently, I am lifting more than I ever thought. The more you practice moving with your body, doing what you love, the more you love doing more with your body.

Celebration of progress

Focusing on health allows you to celebrate small victories like increased stamina, better sleep, or improved strength. These achievements provide tangible evidence of your body’s resilience and adaptability, bolstering your positive self-image. Prioritizing well-being often leads to radiant skin, improved clarity, and a general sense of healthiness.

It’s amazing how even small improvements can foster self-love, and celebrating those successes adds even more to the joy. To illustrate the point, take sleep, for example. Menopause might throw it out of whack, but incorporating exercise, can significantly minimize its impact.

Reflections for you to consider

Q: Why is maintaining a positive body image important? A: Maintaining a positive body image is important because it promotes self-acceptance, boosts self-confidence, and contributes to overall mental and emotional well-being.
Reflection: How do you feel about your body today?  

Q: How can I embrace my changing body? A: Embracing your changing body involves practicing self-love, focusing on the things your body can do, and surrounding yourself with positive influences that celebrate diversity and aging gracefully.
Reflection: What do you love to do? Can you do more of that?  

Q: How can I practice self-care and self-acceptance? A: Practicing self-care and self-acceptance involves engaging in activities that make you feel good, prioritizing your mental and physical well-being, and cultivating a positive mindset through affirmations and gratitude.
Reflection: Can you start journaling? Would you like to receive daily/ weekly affirmations?  

Q: How can I focus on health and well-being instead of appearance? A: Focusing on health and well-being involves adopting a holistic approach to self-care, such as nourishing your body with nutritious food, staying active, getting enough rest, and prioritizing mental and emotional well-being over societal beauty standards.
Reflection: What things are important to me? What action can i take to be the best i can be?  

Take some time to reflect on the questions in this post


Embracing your body at 50 is a journey of self-discovery and self-love. It doesn’t come easy, and takes some effort. The suggestions above are supposed to empower you to appreciate the resilience and beauty that come with age. Whether acknowledging the strength that carried you through life’s challenges, engaging in gentle stretching and mindful exercises, or nourishing your skin and body with care, each step contributes to a holistic sense of well-being.

Prioritise eating well, excercising, and paying attention to your body. You are enhancing your physical health and cultivating a confident and beautiful appearance. Remember, the mind-body connection through practices like meditation is a powerful tool to strengthen the bond between your body and mind. Ultimately, this journey is about celebrating the unique strengths and experiences your body has accumulated over the years. You have the rest of your life in your body, so learn to love it. Subscribe and follow this blog for more practical tips on managing this time of life.

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About me

Turning 50 was an unexpected wake-up call. Panic surged through every fibre of my being as I wondered, “Is my youth slipping away, leaving me behind”.

Standing at the crossroads, I realized I wasn’t alone in this whirlwind of emotions. Many women over 50 experience similar moments of self-doubt and apprehension. The truth is our bodies and minds undergo natural changes as we age. It’s essential to remember that ageing is a privilege denied to many, and instead of fearing it, we must embrace a healthy and happy lifestyle over 50.

Using the advice we share in this blog, many women, including me, have found relief and are better able to manage this transition of life and feel more fulfilled both at home, and at work.

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